Going to college requires a lot of focus. With a full academic schedule to maintain, papers to write, and deadlines to meet, it may seem like you don’t have time to have any fun during your time in college.
Fortunately, there are a few things that can help create a balance between your academic commitment and enjoying college life.
Here’s how to stay focused in college without missing out.
How to Stay Focused in College
There are so many fun things to do at college. You want to attend a concert where your favorite musician is playing. You want to join a Fraternity or Sorority. You want to be a part of the student leadership group. You want to go on that blind date your roomie keeps bugging you to do.
But you can’t.
You must stay focused on your academics. Studying must remain a priority.
This scenario is one faced by most students in college. You don’t want to miss out on all the fun things college students do, but you also don’t want to fail any of your courses.
The good news, there is a happy medium. You can stay focused in college without missing out. Below are a few tips to help you do this.
Stick to a Schedule
Creating a structured schedule and routine is a powerful way to stay focused. It can also help you find time for fun. You simply must schedule fun times into your routine.
Just “winging it” from day to day can cause you to lose track of assignment deadlines, and cause you to make poor decisions, and getting your priorities confused.
Sticking to a schedule means learning positive time-management skills. Some of these skills include keeping a detailed calendar, prioritizing tasks in order of importance, and yes, scheduling time to have fun and relax.
Set Short and Long-Term Goals
When you set goals, you have direction and it is easier to stay headed in the right direction. Goals help you measure your progress and make changes as needed. Both short-term and long-term goals should be set up with multiple sub-goals or details.
They can be written like “to-do” lists. And once you accomplish a goal, cross it off and reward yourself for moving one step closer to your goal.
Short-term goals should focus on what you want to happen in the next year or less. For instance, a good short-term goal is to pass all your classes for the semester. In order to reach this goal, the steps you need to take include: studying two hours a day, showing up for class, joining a study group, and completing all assignments on time.
Long-term goals should focus on what you want to happen in your life after the next year, maybe even five or ten years later. An example of a long-term goal is to get your master’s degree. The steps or smaller goals to help you accomplish this would include graduating with your bachelor’s degree, passing the entrance exam to the master’s program, and maintaining the GPA requirement for entry into the master’s program.
One of your goals should be to have fun and not miss out on fun college activities. Your sub-goals can include ways you can do this. Scheduling in fun times will help you keep a healthy balance to help meet your social and academic needs.
Make Your Health a Priority
In college, it is easy to dismiss ailments, injuries, and illnesses. You think because you are young, they will pass. And this is likely true. However, putting off health check-ups can mean you are not being treated for potential problems.
The stress of college can lead to anxiety and depression and can lead to your immune system not being able to function properly.
Both your mental health and physical health are key factors in your success at college. Making them a priority can help you stay focused in college. It can also help you make decisions about which activities to skip and which ones to attend.
Get help from peer support groups, individual counselors or peer mentoring. It is through campus programs such as these that you will be able to have a little fun too. Many on and off campus counseling programs offer students a fun, sober activities that release stress, make you laugh and help you socialize.
These positive interactions allow you to feel connected while also keeping you focused.
Staying grounded does not mean punishing yourself by staying in your room. It means staying connected to family and friends who are uplifting and encourage you to succeed. If you stay too focused, you may find yourself isolated and withdrawn.
If you have too much fun, your academic efforts will fall short. Connecting with the loved ones in your life who can remind you of your goals and give you a pep talk to get you back on track.
Staying grounded may mean you need to make a phone call to your parents, siblings or long-distance friends. It may also mean you need a weekend road trip to visit them in person.
Do what you need to do to get the boost you need to maintain focus. And catching up with friends and family can help you feel included and as if you are not missing out on anything.
Give Yourself a Pat on the Back
You are doing all the right things to stay focused on succeeding academically. Why not reward yourself for your accomplishments? Don’t feel guilty. Don’t talk yourself out of it. Just do it, pat yourself on the back, and find creative ways to reward yourself.
Some ideas for rewarding yourself for working hard in your studies include catching a movie with friends, getting ice cream after a long study session, or allowing yourself to attend that concert you have been dreaming about.
Rewards should be realistic and not over the top. Don’t spend all your money on a road trip to the beach just for completing a take-home exam. How you reward yourself should not create more stress for you, whether socially, financially or academically.
Now that you know how to stay focused in college without missing out on fun activities, consider trying one or two of these tips to create a more a balance between your academic responsibilities and enjoying the fun of being in college.
This is a special time of your life, so be sure to make the best of it.
It takes work, but using the tips we’ve shared here today may help you create a healthier experience in college that you’ll remember for years to come.